According to the new Campaign group, more women were killed than a stranger or a stranger.
The latest Femicide Census report states that out of 121 women who were killed by men in 2022, 12 of their sons killed and 11 by a man they did not know.
Organization Executive Director dr. Karen Ingala Smith said that every woman killed by her son was “much more living and experiencing serious violence and violence.”
One mother from Midlands said her son was 12 when he first struck her, and “only so many times that you can tell you social services, we can’t do anything else.”
A 34-year-old said, “It wasn’t the way we raised it. We just didn’t know how to get out of it.”
Her family spent two years asking the authorities to support the authorities and adapted CCTV cameras in her home when she felt unheard, she said.
“Then we were criticized for being too much used by the police,” her partner said.
Despite more than 60 police calls, the couple said the Crown Prosecutor’s Office (CPS) refused to prosecute their autism’s teenage son because “it was not the public interest.”
“These are complete assault, GBH, ABH, sometimes strangling,” the boy’s stepfather said.
“But you told you to sit with them and watch the TV for an hour. Show that you still love them.”
Their son was admitted this year to the care of the incident, during which his stepfather “thought he would kill” his mother.
“It was on the floor, stamped from head to leg,” he said.
More families talk about abuse that causes them to experience the hands of their children [Supplied]
A femicide census investigation said most female victims were killed by a partner (27) or spouse (24) or former partner (10) or former spouse (1).
Another common category of violence was sons (12) or parents (1).
The investigation investigated men convicted of killing women, men responsible for death in investigation, and men who were mainly suspected or accused of death, even even unusual.
Dr. Ingala Smith said the organization was “related to the tip of the iceberg” because there were “even more” cases of violence that died.
“Women who are affected by this abuse may not recognize it as a form of domestic violence and the form of abuse and do not think that they will be accessible to existing support services,” she said.
“In fact, sometimes they are right, too few services such as police, health, homelessness and even domestic violence and abuse of services, admit properly and have no specialist violence from the son to the mother and have no specialist adapted to deal with it.”
Some children may be violent from early age [Getty Images]
The government said violence against women and girls would cut halved in the next 10 years.
Minister Jess Phillips, security and violence against women and girls, said: The extent of the question was “nothing more than a national emergency”.
“That is why, over a decade, we have committed us to reduce violence against women and girls, including the child’s struggle with parents’ violence through an effective system to ensure problematic behavior and victims are early identified. Services are effectively responding to stop harmful behavior from continuing or escalation.”
The government is also planning to reorganize the response of police and criminal justice to the family “to ensure that more victims are protected and punishable by more culprits.”
“None of us have been safe”
Previous data on femicide census indicates that adopted sons kill much fewer women than biological sons – three compared to 172 during the previous study period.
The latest survey does not provide comparable numbers, but dr. Ingala Smith said the organization believes that the differences were because it is very difficult for biological mothers to “close the door” for her child.
Although she did not want to “hurt any parent or daughter relationship”, she believed that the biological mother “could remain your last back,” she said.
“Mother probably knows she’s the last left of her son.”
Many adoptive parents said the BBC was confronted with repeated violence, and in some cases felt that they had no choice to return their child to care.
One mother said she was “beaten and beaten, threatened with knives,” and the other said it was a “brutal, frightening experience of living in fear of her child, still deeply loving them.”
The couple who adopted the child said they were “completely broken” and were “left to board, without support.”
A mother from Northeast of England, who adopted her daughter almost 10 years ago as a baby, said the child started beating and, at the age of three, began to head.
Within six months, the mother started to turn off electricity and sleep with kitchen knives hidden under her mattress to distract her daughter.
“I risked assessing Max to protect us both safe and prevent her from doing something with me, that she would regret it for the rest of her life,” she said.
A 53-year-old said for four years that she repeatedly asked for the recovery of the authorities, but she was only offered her parents’ courses.
“None of us were safe,” she said.
Investigator Nikki Rutter of Durham University believes that families are directed at the crisis [BBC]
The English Law does not currently recognize that people under the age of 16 may be violent in the family, although it has been urged to change.
No institution in England has a statutory obligation to help families and maintain all over the country.
Therapists, academics and social workers are cautious about physical restraint and say that early intervention is desirable.
However, Nikki Rutter, a researcher at Durham University, said that “very rarely is in many local authorities.”
“They face a problem when it reaches a crisis, not prevented,” she said.
“[Parents are] Crying for help, quite often from the four -year -old child, and nothing is done. ”
In addition to the statutory obligations to help, services may say that the issue is not their liability or that they are not entrusted with support, she said.
“Families have to feel that there is no way out,” she added.
The adoption concluded that the only way out was to end the adoption.
“I dropped her at school and said goodbye to her,” she said.
In her head, she decided, “I don’t choose her.”
The mother informed the school and social services, but said she would never recover after the decision to return her daughter to take care.
“I gave up everything in my life because of my child, and it wasn’t enough.”
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