I co-signed my girlfriend’s student loans a decade ago and just found out she stopped paying. What are my options?

Co-signing a student loan can be a short-term boon, but for many people it becomes a long-term financial risk. According to higher education expert Mark Kantrowitz, more than 90 percent of private student loans require a cosigner, meaning two people are equally responsible for the debt.

“A co-signer is often required on a private student loan because the student borrower has a thin or non-existent credit history,” Kantrowitz told CNBC (1). “I’m an unproven asset.”

This obligation does not disappear until the loan is repaid, and it does not matter who benefited from the loan.

Imagine Jessica, a 28-year-old who agreed to co-sign her friend’s private student loans when she was 22. At the time, she was newly single and trying to help someone she trusted. Her friend needed a co-signer to finish her degree and promised to stay on top of the payments. He also told Jessica that he would refinance the loan as soon as he could. For years, everything seemed fine.

But Jessica recently learned that the loan was several months past due and that her friend had stopped making payments — and stopped responding to her texts. The lender began calling Jessica directly, warning that they would soon report the late payments to the credit bureaus.

Taking over the loan payments could undo the years of work Jessica put in to get rid of her credit card debt, but leaving it unpaid could damage her credit. What can she do to stay financially healthy?

Jessica’s situation illustrates a risk that millions of Americans take, often without fully understanding the consequences. Private student loans are especially risky for cosigners because they lack many of the protections included in federal loans. There are usually no income-based repayment plans and few forgiveness options. Even when cosigner release programs exist, they are rarely granted and generally require the approval of the principal borrower (2).

“In general, lenders are averse to dropping a cosigner,” Dean Kaplan, president of The Kaplan Group, told US News.

“If they have released the cosigner and then the borrower defaults, the lender faces a greater financial loss than if they had not released the cosigner (2).”

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